Today I was thinking while preparing this dish for my anniversary that weather is happening with me is it true? As I feel nature always has opposite plans to whatever I wished or planned.
At the age of 21 got married as after marriage everything was new and unknown to me. Before marriage I didn’t like cooking at all, my mom used to tell me to learn cooking, as it will be helpful to you in future but I always ignored her, and told her that “I will not marry my whole life”. Suddenly one day we had uninvited guests, and my mom asked me to cook for them, they were 12 to 15 members and preparing lunch for them, that too me? Sometimes I laugh on myself for the thought I had in those days and now I feel proud and happy as now I love cooking and people always comment that they can’t make similar taste.
I used to love wearing only western dresses and hardly had any Indian outfits in my wardrobe but on the first day after marriage it was compulsory to wear a saree, oh my god it was the worst feeling as I didn’t know how to wear and whom to approach for help as it was my first day in my in-law’s house, but to my luck my mother in law understood my confusion and came to the rescue.
And many more things which change according to our age, our relations, after kids, the surroundings.
I always feel a bit sad thinking that why can’t we live life the way we like.
Is it true that nature gives or plans for us what we didn’t like? Or else we always plan or love opposite to what is meant for us?
The answer is yet to be found.